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Carl A. Jensen's avatar

Yes. As is to often the case, heightened anxiety leads to behaviors that increase threats rather than deal with them thoughtfully and effectively.

One corrective is diversity of thought, which privileges individuals doing their own thinking, open-minded dialogue, and thoughtful problem-solving in the context of a shared mission. This is an effort to balance the biologically rooted forces of individuality and togetherness and to address anxiety triggers in ways that are not self-defeating.

Natural Systems Theory as developed by Bowen and applied to religious communities by Friedman and Steinke describes these dynamics comprehensively. Healthy Congregations is an organization that helps congregations to address these issues, and many other systems oriented coaches do as well.

Dick Burkhart's avatar

This article certainly applies to the UUA. The groupthink and censorship are often explicit. For example, favored individuals and groups can accuse others of being "out-of-covenant" or the like, without consequence, while those, like Todd Eklof, who dare to raise legitimate issues about the tactics or ideology of those who are favored, may be dealt with harshly and without due process. Today, when the Ministerial Fellowship Committee (MFC), removes a minister from fellowship with generic accusations of bullying and violations of the UUMA code of conduct, one never knows if the purported misconduct was real or if the minister may have been resisting prejudice, bigotry, or misconduct by a well-connected or vengeful accuser.

A few weeks back such accusations against a minister were published to justify his removal, without any hint as to the validity of the evidence or of due process. To my mind there should have been an automatic appeal to an independent, expert review panel, paid for by the UUA but beholden to a much broader societal entity.

The generic accusations against this minister reminded me of the well-documented and well-founded accusations against a minister several years ago. In that case the MFC took no action against the minister, likely because she was a young, female, progressive, and very articulate and personable. This lack of action was notable because the sermon, which misrepresented and denigrated Todd Eklof, and subsequent actions by her that were denounced by others, led to the breakup of a congregation.

Later she broadcast to the internet a similar unwarranted attack on an organization which has defended Eklof's right-of-critique. As a board member of that organization, I read the code of conduct in detail and prepared a lengthy and explicit report documenting her unethical behavior and submitted it to the MFC. Though this behavior didn't rise to a "level of concern" for the MFC, the word spread through the grapevine, and she has only been employed as chaplain since.

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